How it works
This is not a dating app. It's precision work. I only make an introduction when I believe two people have real potential for marriage, and I stay involved as your go-between through the first three dates. Matched with someone farther away? See how long distance works.
Join the pool
Fill out the form yourself, free. You're in my database and visible to me every time I search.
Book your Intro Chat
Part consultation, part vibe check, honestly just really fun. I need to meet you before I can set you up.
Stay in touch monthly
A real update and a photo each month keeps you top of mind. My best matches happen away from my desk.
Get set up
When there's a real fit nearby, I introduce you and coach you through your first three in-person dates. If it's not it, you're back in the pool with better data.
Your person might be a drive or a flight away.
I met my husband long distance. I've taken everything I learned and built it into a system that sets you up for success, from the very first call.
Start with one 30-minute video call
No travel, no pressure. Treat it like meeting someone at a party and see if you like their vibe enough for one more step.
Follow my proven protocol
I guide you both step by step through what comes next, built from my own long-distance love story and the couples I've matched since.
Make the distance work
Whether it's an hour on the highway or a day of travel across the country, you'll have a plan for building something real.
The big payment comes when you're engaged.
Many American-style matchmakers charge $5,000 to $50,000 or more up front for a contracted amount of time. I follow the traditional model of shadchanus gelt instead: the most significant payment is made when you are, in fact, matched.
It's paid within 30 days of engagement, typically about 5% of the couple's combined annual income, with a $5,400 minimum. Many families take it on as part of the wedding journey, right up there with the ring and the venue, and many choose a multiple of chai for the symbolism.
May you be part of the next match.
Fill out the form yourself to join the pool. It's free, and it's the first step to everything else.
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